Friday, November 29, 2013

DYNAMIC FRIDAY!



Aging Defiantly:  Betsey Johnson
Photo credit: Wikipedia

Aging Gracefully:  Holly Hunter
Photo credit: Wikipedia

Aging With Spunk Intact:  William Shatner

Photo credit: williamshatner.com

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

WAKE UP WEDNESDAY!

LENGTHEN YOUR LIFE WITH LAUGHTER
Humor is man's greatest blessing. - Mark Twain

As in anything in life, levity makes our personal journey that much better.  Science has proved that “Laughter is the best medicine.”  Laughter reduces stress, pain and conflict while strengthening social bonds, ( according to Scientific American Mind).

Aging is a process.  How you feel about yourself affects how you experience your life’s journey.  How you feel about yourself also affects others.  Vast studies have been made confirming the connection between health, healing, positive thinking, and laughter.  From the laboratories at major universities to ancient wisdom and new thought thinkers, such as Ernest Holmes who created Religious Science, what you think is as important, (and in some cases more important), than what you do!

Is your glass half full or half empty?  How do you really perceive your world and those around you?

Isn’t there enough pressure in our world without adding more to it?  It seems to me that relishing in the moment, rejoicing in accomplishments, and viewing as much as possible with a humorous slant, can brighten the day. (I’ll certainly welcome a bouquet of happiness with open arms!  Won’t you?)

I know someone who turns her frowns upside down as soon as she catches herself feeling down.  She told me that as soon as she does that and forces a smile, that smile soon softens and becomes natural, her thoughts smooth over and her heart lightens.  And when she can laugh about it – just like that - everything that wasn’t “right” suddenly dissipates.   

We all encounter people who are funny.  If you over hear a comment that tickles your funny bone, remember and use it.  Then start to build on what you’ve learned. 

If you’ve never been the sharpest comic in the room, not to worry.  Believe-it-or-not, there’s a group just for you: "The Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor."  Of course you can read quotes from such great humorists as Mark Twain or watch classic comedies, (I Love Lucy, Burns and Allen, etc.) on DVD, on-line, (YouTube, Hulu, Netflix, etc.), cable and Television.  Search for the top sitcoms in the U.S., in Britain and elsewhere.  (Check out your local library’s video section and find out what’s available for free.)  You can also attend theatre shows and join comedy workshops to up your humor.

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Additional Reading:
Danny Murphy, Humor 101
Norman Cousins, Head First
Norman Cousins, Anatomy of an Illness

Resources:

Sunday, November 24, 2013

JUST HOGWASH!

Seniors don’t use the Internet.
HOGWASH! 

As of May 19, 2013, Pew Research Center states that 56% of Internet users are 65+.


Friday, November 22, 2013

DYNAMIC FRIDAY!



Aging Defiantly:  Desmond Tutu
Official website http://www.tutu.org/home/
Photo credit: theguardian.com

Aging Gracefully:  Angie Dickinson
Photo credit: Wikipedia

Aging With Spunk Intact:  Leonard Nimoy
Photo credit: Gage Skidmore

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

WAKE UP WEDNESDAY!

KEEPING BRAIN-FIT

According to Institutes such as Johns Hopkins, brain function is intact almost until the end of life.  New brain cells and their connections are generated all the time.  Keeping brain-fit to access your Personal Retrieval System is vital in order to continue to learn, grow and make contributions to society throughout your life. 

Just as the work by Erik and Joan Erikson’s forecasted longevity filled with continuing achievements and contributions by the older population, today’s scientific research backs up their predictions.  
But in order to reap the benefits of longevity, you have to practice being brain-fit in order to maintain healthy and on-going brain function.  Experts now believe that the more cognitive reserves you create, the better your chances are of having a healthy brain.  It’s the old saying, “Use It or Lose It.”  As important cardio and weight baring exercises are for your overall health - improving, exercising and recalling your memory is vital to healthy brain function. 

Research demonstrates that continuing participation in a range of mentally stimulating activities such as chess and bridge or learning a new language or musical instrument are wonderful ways in which you can contribute toward your brain’s health.  The more you engage in challenging your brain, the more new cells and pathways you form. 

Joining a community drum circle is excellent activity for staying brain fit and more, as is, playing board games with children, (of course, the more complex the games are,  the better).  Other ideas for keeping brain-fit include using your non-dominant hand whenever possible.  By doing so, you could possibly strengthen pathways in the opposite side of your brain.  According to the work done by the late Dr. Katz, keeping your eyes closed while eating might help with forming new cells and pathways devoted to the processing of sensory input.

Besides engaging in new and dynamic ways throughout your life to contribute toward brain health, it is important to socialize, reduce stress, sleep, maintain a healthy heart, be at the right weight for your body type, exercise, (especially walking which improves blood flow), eat healthy, and be aware of which medications block the brain chemical, acetylcholine, which is imperative to memory.  (Check with your doctor to find medications which do not affect your memory.) 

If the concept of having a healthy brain is new to you, the idea of having to change many things in your life to improve your brain health, might be overwhelming.  But if you break everything down into manageable steps, and take one thing at a time, (perhaps start with walking every day), you’ll be contributing toward being more brain fit.  And that’s exciting!

with:
Dr. Lawrence Katz, Keep Your Brain Alive

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Sunday, November 17, 2013

JUST HOGWASH!

Seniors Don’t Contribute to Society
HOGWASH! 

The Silver Generation is returning to the workplace and play dynamic roles as caregivers, volunteers, grandparents, and guardians.


Friday, November 15, 2013

DYNAMIC FRIDAY!



Aging Defiantly:  Cheech Marin
Official website http://cheechmarin.com/
Photo credit: wikipedia

Aging Gracefully:  Angelica Huston
Photo credit: looktothestars.org

Aging With Spunk Intact Diane Keaton             

Photo credit: Firooz Zahedi

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

WAKE UP WEDNESDAY!

GET EMPOWERED

Is there a better subject to learn than aging?  Perhaps.  But for me there isn’t. That’s why I wrote Aging Gracefully With Dignity, Integrity & Spunk Intact: Aging Defiantly.  With psychology, sociology, science, medicine and technology on my side, I know what’s in store for the Silver Generation and boy is it exciting!  So instead of wishing we could reverse aging, we can rejoice and embrace it. 

If you’re wondering who influenced my writing, I can tell you that there were 5 prominent authors whose work had the most impact on my book and who changed my perception about aging.  For starters, I was enthralled by the famous social psychologist, Erik Erikson and his wife, Joan, as well as their collaboration with Helen Q. Kivnick.  Together, their work on aging and society opened my heart and mind to a whole new level of self exploration and understanding about aging and the aging process.  I was fascinated with the Erikson’s research which outlines a productive and rich life in later years while exposing social hogwash that we as a society have bought into.  I also enjoyed Eric Berne’s classic book, "Games People Play."  (And boy, do people like to mess with anyone over 50.  Berne’s book is where I got the idea to include the 10 tips to get people off your back.)   And the fifth author who inspired me was Norman Vincent Peale, writer of the ever popular, “The Power of Positive Thinking,” which supports the importance of using humor.

I relied on the scientific data from the Society for Neuroscience (SFN), Harvard Magazine, The Pennsylvania Gazette, Scientific American, and so on.  I read university papers from Brown and Cornell on human development; disease regenerative biology, cellular/molecular/bio engineering, biomedical mechanics, physics, chemistry, computers, and on and on.

Empower yourself about aging.  You hold the key to make it be.  Read, listen and learn.  It’s never too late to improve yourself.

with:
Erikson, Erik H., Erikson, Joan M., and Kivnick, Helen Q. Vital Involvement in Old Age
Eric Berne’s classic book, Games People Play  
Norman Vincent Peale, writer of the ever popular, The Power of Positive Thinking

Additional Reading:

Resources:

Mario Martinez, 100 Years Young

Sunday, November 10, 2013

JUST HOGWASH!

People Over 50 Are All the Same. 
HOGWASH! 

The Silver Generation has the highest variety of people than any other age group.


Friday, November 8, 2013

DYNAMIC FRIDAY!



Aging Defiantly:  Annie Lennox
Official website http://www.annielennox.com/
Photo credit: wikipedia

Aging Gracefully:  Daryl Hannah
Photo credit: IMBD.com

Aging With Spunk Intact:  Ellen DeGeneres
Official website http://www.ellentv.com/
Photo credit: coolspotters.com


Wednesday, November 6, 2013

WAKE UP WEDNESDAY!

IT STARTS IN YOUR MIND

Today, with so much media bombardment, aging gracefully can be daunting.  Aging with joy seems like flying in the face of conventional wisdom.  And it is!  Because conventional wisdom has fallen behind in the advancements made in science, medicine and technology in the area of aging.  Buried deep in our subconscious are the remnants of out dated, unadventurous thinking which prevents most of us from embracing the here-and-now and becoming open to new possibilities about aging. 

Aging celebrates life.  It reflects biological transitions and reflects cultural and societal trends.  In keeping with the concept that aging is the art of joy in action, I have published several poetry books for the Silver Generation from a personal perspective and dedicated to the last phase of life:  Changing Landscapes of Our Lives; Scenes From a Summer Home, and, Fear, Trembling & Renewal.  

My body of work is inspirational and insightful, shedding light about the wonders of aging and reflecting on how our subconscious mind plays a big part in how we experience aging.  In "Scenes From a Summer Home," I explore the changing and undefined boundaries between time and space, and between beginnings and endings.  “Fear, Trembling & Renewal," is about breaking through old paradigms to achieve new insights and perspectives about aging and life.  While my latest book, “Changing Landscapes of Our Lives,” is a collaborative work and one that rejoices in the process of life itself.

Regardless of your gender, race, religion, status, and so on - how you perceive, how you experience aging - begins in your mind.  So I ask you:  How do you think about aging?

with
Joseph Murphy’s, The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

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Sunday, November 3, 2013

JUST HOGWASH!

Senior Work Outs are a Waste of Time.
HOGWASH! 

The Silver Generation can expect to reap improved heart function, reduction of heart attacks, increased energy, and reduced shortness of breath by picking up exercising later in life, even as late as 70.  



Friday, November 1, 2013

DYNAMIC FRIDAY!


Aging Defiantly:  Tyrus Wong
Photo credit: cartoonbrew.com

Aging Gracefully:  H. Owen Reed
Photo credit: msu.edu

Aging With Spunk Intact:  Said Akl

Photo credit: lebononism.com